Kind of different situation but same theme. Again- when I tried to explain how I felt- she got extremely mad again and accused me of interfering with her sons life- and that she's doing everything she's doing for her son to be happy. Am I(23f) being unreasonable for feeling insecure and inadequate, New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. At age 9, I was raped by another family member . because he realized i wasnt playing. also he gets mad when i try to invite myself which i think is total ****. But i feel you and i pray everything turns out ok for you and her. I rather put a third party between us.Cause seriously people get hurt or die because of this. Need help with your relationship? She says that he wants to see his. If he is using their baby to emotional blackmail your girlfriend then he isn't a good father. Forums > Sports, Hip Hop & Piff > The Locker Room >. If she does answer the phone to ask him to watch his son he's cursin her out for no reason at all or askin for money which he would never get from her in a million years. The weekend of his 25th birthday, we headed out of town and had the time of our lives. Baby Daddy Issues Trust Issues am I crazy??? I think, best that this event does not take place. I just hope one day when she gets older she can forgive me and listen when I tell her that its okay to not do what the other woman will. I'm 8 months Pregnant and I thought all this time me and my baby daddy were Hey guys I broke up with my baby daddy when I was 3months pregnant which My girlfriend is planning on going shopping with her ex/baby daddy. My dad is dying. It almost says something about ones decision making skills, but we all make mistakes. In the first year or so after you lose your Dad, people might tell you that the holidays "Are a time to remember your loved one.". BabyDaddyDrama 9 years ago lol thats a good one but no life is too short to waste it on fighting for a girl i learned that if she has to decide who she wants to be with then let her be with him because she never loved you at all if she has to choose #im nobodys second choice reply #14 joel 8 years ago . Girlfriend and baby daddy drama, please help! Them three will be taking a hike together in couple of days. But of course I did not! Not his wife. I will eventually accept his new gf and realize that I will have to include her eventuallybut for us, it's all still a new arrangement and we want to ease our daughter into the idea, she hasn't even met his new gf yetand it won't be happening anytime soon. I spend a majority of my time watching him and taking care of him when his mom is at her second job. if they talk that Lisa scoffed, feeling a sense of injustice. So I have this boyfriend who is a baby daddy. i mean me and the guy will never get along but i just want to go because im in her and the babys life now too. Our commitment to showcasing the best and brightest as well as highlighting disparities in Black life has been, and will always be, cornerstone to EBONY. We arent seeing others so we have a fwb situation. Thank god the baby is still young and hopefully he gets it together before the child gets older. I had to put my foot down. Take a look. The father wants to have complete control over his daughter's life. Im only 5'4 so i feel i have to defend myself. I'm here with you bro. We are in the exact same boat. They are trying to hang on to what little they can control by being dramatic and getting some type of energy from your spouse and you. Soon the time came for us to fulfill his fantasy, all we needed was a man. 2. Why my baby daddy keep begging for sex?!!!!! It might be a good idea to be friendly with him and get to know him because he will always be in her life due to them sharing a child. Get out now before you get too much more involved. MY GIRLFRIENDS DAD WANTS TO FIGHT ME in Fortnite Chapter 2, Season 6 gameplaySUBSCRIBE \u0026 CLICK THE BELL! What a shit show. Especially sence she wanted me to cut off all ties with my ex and dosnt even want the thought of her in my mind. One option would be to get the help of his parents or siblings, if you know them. in cases like these, someone ALWAYS get's hurt, lied, and left after she realizes that her "family" is worth more than another guy that she doesn't have a kid with. Her and I are both respectable adults and he is just a loser that gets satisfaction out of making my girlfriend's life hell because she didn't want to be with him. I accompany her sometimes, but hang back where he cant see, just for her protection. Of course since he has no job, he has child support ordered on him, but hasn't paid a dime. OKAY MY BABY-DADDY HAS A GIRLFRIEND BUT HE ALWAYS TXTN ME AN Will my baby daddy ever come back to me and his daughter?? Our baby is now 3 years old. misery loves company and th e lord needs to deal with him all alone so get out of his way to you and your girlfriend. He is on work release Its not a problem as long as you don't mind a ton of drama. As far as my landlord goes, Im not signing my lease for another year, Im suing that SOAB. I want my baby daddy back but he is with a new woman HELP! I(39m) ate my partners(40m) sandwich and ruined his day. My FIANCE'S baby daddy.. (4 kids together one sadly deceased) is coming over just showing up now at our home, having dinner, smoking outside with her and here like all day unannounced saying his gf dont understand him and all this jazz. He hasn't done anything yet, but I know its coming. Holidays will suck, period. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. He was pleading his love for her until 2 months of us dating. Now I Don't Know Who My Child's Father Is". A lot of the time, the girl needs time to grow and figure out what she wants and needs for her child, but she wont get a chance if she gets into another relationship right away. And I'm afraid that my current pfa will affect my current girlfriend from winning the custody battle. Insist that he tells his girlfriend, and point out that once the baby is born it will be next to impossible for him to conceal his paternity of the child anyway. . Here are 5 signs your baby daddy wants you back. JavaScript is disabled. I wanted him to be in his childs life but after talking to my boyfriend i learned that baby dad has to want to be in her life and that means getting along and letting me live my life. This could mess up your girlfriend's chances of keeping custody. They broke up because he's an abusive, no job, no cell phone, no apartment havin, no car drivin, weed smokin stereotype. Before getting involved with the courts cause then they make you take the kid for visitation or worse he could go for custody. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. That was the reaction last night when social media maven Supa Cent shared, via her Instagram page, what she did for not only Phil her baby daddy, but his girlfriend as well. I was just recently divorced about 10 months ago but lived a very bad relationship with him. Just move on, she is using you. She's 22 (just turned 22) and her baby daddy is 21. You must log in or register to reply here. Madi Brooks lives with her husband in the US, but as she explains in her TikTok videos, if she's not in the mood, she's quite happy for her mum to sleep with him. If a woman was a stripper or a sugar baby . All 6 answers and this one is telling you to let go and start building your own life! So yeah we're dating and everything's a dream.and then this happens the father of the kid comes back ..now . I have alot of issues my self lol. Idk why he wants to fight him, I guess he wants to feel manly, its kind of hard to feel manly. After graduation we decided to move in together, but things started to changesomewhere around year two of our post-college bliss. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. She knew what she was going back to and was willing to try. LISTEN to the advice. Its not my fault he is a lazy worthless father and if **** sure not because I spead my legs to soon! It's a red flag that I would file away as a . Remember no matter how "crazy" Dad may be he is STILL Dad. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. My girlfriends baby daddy beat her and kicked her out, and kept her child. It's not like he transformed into a weed smoking jobless Decepticon overnight so a woman that could choose him bears watching with caution before you invest and become baby daddy number two. Period. You do not live together as husband and wife. If you do then walk away your girlfriend will be in a good position to care for herself and her kid not up the creek without a paddle. The baby daddy wants her to sign papers so that he does not have to pay or have any rights to this baby. I'm a 26m and my gf is 26 Just wondering if having my girlfriends baby daddy come over for holidays and spend the day with us as a family is ok? !" So In today's. Sports, Hip Hop & Piff - The Coli. The reason I decided to post here is because I'm completely stumped on what to do in this situation, and thought I'd get some other opinions. My girlfriends CRAZY BABY DADDY (HELP!!!!! She is a great mother and doesn't keep her from him but the only reason he has anything to do with his child is so he can have a reason to harass my girlfriend. If your ex's boyfriend/girlfriend endangers your child's life or development, address the issue immediately. We are living in a mobile home. She may be on a mission to either find someone to take care of her or to make her dad mad. . Once she has moved on and settled on an arrangement with him and the baby daddy has realized that she has moved on then you can step in and make and form a relationship around real feeling and not just the feeling of saving a damsel in distress and her feeling of, being alone with her child and no one to help her. Husband (36m) mad at me (35f) and seeking FWB online. anyways, its a F** up situation and I was willing to go through with it but my friend made me realize that it's really not worth it. I have this crazy baby daddy who is trying to take my baby a Baby daddy asked me to give him time to leave his girlfriend. Who doesnt want to keep their man happy? When I told my best friend, red flags went up for her immediately: Hes trying to get rid of you. ), Girlfriend stopped calling me baby,babe,love. And before me- she was with the baby daddy for 4 years. You re his girlfriend. Telling your father, "I don't want you to joke about watching me have sex . It's not a joke. Channing Tatum has revealed he was bombarded with explicit photos from an older female fan after his friends accidentally followed her on Instagram.. Your child's father could be the scum of the universe and did you in the dirtiest way humanly possible. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. i absolutely love this girl and the feeling is mutual. His gf doesn't even know we spend as much time as we do together as a family.so to answer your question.You should be able to go with them where ever they gothat should not be a matter. Your situation is messed up because the dad sounds like he looking for a pity party and her to take care of him and if she fell for it take Elsa advice and let it go you'll find someone who wants to take care of you as much as you want to take care of them. He lives with his new girlfriend and her two-year-old son . Just rasie the baby as your own and move on she shouldn't even want her child around him Just act like he doesn't exist until he gets it together. "No more please daddy" I cry loudly. Well, if he now suddenly wants to be part of his daughter's life, I'm sure he won't mind your gf lawyering up and going for child support he owes. He calls her everyday and leaves voicemails callin her baby, and everything. Those words were always in the back of my mind as I dated. Actually this is a very sensible idea. Many of you sound like lonely, egotistical, depressed people. I found the request strange, to say the least. He calmed down for a little after that but once again he's back to the same old tricks. Texting before sleep proves that she's met someone whom she fancies and wants to get to know better. How do you deal with someone who has NOTHING? If at all possible, you want your new guy and baby daddy to at least be civil to each other. It's not up to you as the bf to try and get involved its up to the chick. Do not have anything do with girls who have kids and exes. By Confused, 6 years ago on Dating 2,465 I'm 26 and my girl is 27 So I'm going to go into great detail about my situation. If she says shes not interested shes not interested. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. There's a greater chance that seeing the "real man" you now have will light a fire under his butt to get his act together. My girlfriends baby daddy will not quit trying to get her back. Now don't get me wrong, I have NO problem what-so-ever holdin my own if it comes to that, because I know that the instant he sees me he's gonna want to fight me. email me if you don't mind. Its not a problem as long as you don't mind a ton of drama. Hunter Biden fathered a daughter with ex-lover Lunden Roberts. I tried to get a restraining order last year because of his constant harassement but was denied. Kinda the same but here goes .. My names Carlos and I met this beautiful spiritual girl named Jackie.when we first met it was at work I was minding my own business then outta nowhere we talked and we connected and after however much we both disagreed on relationships ..me because I was cheated on .and her because of some guy who got her hopes up and before that her abusive and controlling baby daddy .so now I've said that yeah she has a two year old kid who I think is wonderful and she's a wonderful mother..so after careful thinking I asked her out I had my doubt's but we had connected on so many levels I didn't notice I loved this chick already . Yesterday he wanted to drop off something and i told him i would be gone and would call him today.Well i got home early and of course he showed up banging on the door like he the police. I'm just afraid that eventually she's going to hang out with her ex more and more and realize that she " needs " him in her life for her son. Dump the bf. "Baby you still have five more but I'll make them quick ones sweety" he says calmly. I'm like aw man not this..but I don't say anything about it .but she does. Young girl japanese porn. 1) . Her conception might not have been ideal, but her birth is most certainly a blessing. It wont be healthy for the child tho just because the child is going to get confused. 1,067 Young Girl Breasts Premium High Res Photos - Getty Images. He calls her talking to her all crazy telling her to "Do what I told you to and and it wont get out of hand" and i get soo **** and not sure what to do.They have a son together and he uses the son as a pon against her which leaves her crying and histerical .Dude you dont have to deal with that if you dont choose to if it disrupts you life completly. Is it in the best interest of a child to all of a sudden have its father missing, and a new guy come in, for what a couple of months?! He feels he can come around whenever he pleases because his daughter is there. Why can she stay with him, but I can't?". She has a 4 year old son. But i had a dream of me in jail. In your circumstances, since you're already in the child's lifeyou need to put your foot down and get involved with those family outings, your gf should support you 100% on that. i dont know what to do. Move far away with your gf and the kid. He wont even sell drugs, steal car stereos, or anything. The "grand gesture" is often not that grand. I've read here before, but never posted. I think I'm the problem. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. The baby deserves a baby role model Peace reply #4 Joe 13 years ago They are your children. you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to the. Anything I say regarding it is always the wrong thing and just starts a humongous fight so I don't even say anything to it now. at the end of the day, they do have a child together that most of us forget about while we worry about our own feeling and wants, that we forget the child is watching and learning. ok she 14 months i understand its crucial to let the baby see the father but he gets the baby Wednesday night to Sunday morning and my girlfriend Sunday to Wednesday so they get equal visiting but is it appropriate for my girlfriend and the baby daddy to go places and just because i want to go to that a bunch of drama gets started or even the fact of them just going just them three? Guys that get involved with women that have children needs to accept that if the father wants to be an active parent, the new guy should butt out. Slowly increase the amount of time of visits so that he becomes more preoccupied with fatherhood. I've met a lot of dead beats, but this guy is the true definition of it. Then I found out that another girl with eyes for my man did just that. Trust issues with a guy with baby mama drama. 10. She told me that I have no right to feel the way I feel because her ex is the child's father. He is fighting hard to prevent his daughter from taking his last name. so I asked her why break up but instead to take a break ..she's said Ok and here we are the first day of break and no texts barely and if there is its like 3 words max 2 or more hours apart but there you have it my situation. thats what i said and almost everytime they talk it ends up them arguing. I did that to my baby daddy. I'm with her everyday and night and laugh at all his texts throughout the night as she deletes them and ignores him. I'm 33 and she's 29. 2. she could be civil to him and talk to him if he visits her son but its a whole different matter if they talk on the phone for three hours! You are using an out of date browser. My wife has been calling me "the baby daddy" for a while now. Animal behavior 101. follow my twitter: https://twitter.com/paralleltechy. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. Discussion in 'The Locker Room' started by BrothaZay, Apr 24, 2017. For now I just focus on loving her. You should have kicked his **** when he started to sniff around her butt again. If he still refuses, you might need to enlist the help of family members in your cause. MY GIRLFRIENDS BABY DADDY IS CRAZY!!! The footage, posted early Saturday, purportedly shows Savannah Sprague, a cheerleader for Clayton Valley Charter High School, brutally beating an unidentified girl who had just challenged her to a. they just know thats my daddy and hes effing awesome. Privacy Policy. And she didn't wanna give me a straight answer on what she wanted ..I hugged her that night and she didn't hug me the same way she use to. Wait for him to cross that line first and make sure you have witnesses who are on your side otherwise it is your word against his. My girlfriend's ex will tell people that they are still together and she is ashamed she ever dated him in the first place. I think it depends on how old the child is. Sounds like she's a keeper. Until then I have to treat your posts as spam. He uses his daughter as a means to mentally abuse my girlfriend and even tries to get her to resent her mom. Sometimes he tries to take the keys out of the ignition, etc. But making the wrong decision will end up with you spending time in jail or dead while she this beef between her and him continue. A baby, whose entire future can be influenced by the commitment the parents have for rearing this child, should be the focal point. well he used to. 12 Fashionable Workout Sets to Set Off Your Fitness Resolutions, Andr Leon Talley's Wardrobe To Be Auctioned Through Christie's Auction House, The Best Looks From The 5th Annual Urban One Honors Awards Red Carpet, Model Liya Kebede's Collection for Banana Republic Is a Study in Modern Elegance, Uncle Nearest Whiskey Raising $1 Million for Underfunded HBCUs, Anika Noni Rose Weds 'Her Prince,' Actor Jason Dirden, Travel Influencer Kojo Nkunim on Ways to Expose Young Children to Their Ancestral Culture, How Your Financial Habits Impact Your Mental Health. Can my boyfriend still love his baby mama? I have my mom and older sister cut off. She was qite abrupt with her response which fits her nature when someone burns her. JavaScript is disabled. Giving him a few minutes to voice his mind won't hurt you *and it'll be fun too*. 786-401-2173. website. Vote 0 comments Best and without me asking she said she really liked me genuinely full heart on .so exactly a month ago . Based on personal experience I would just leave her alone and find a woman that doesn't have kids or baby daddy's that are involved. When it was over, the stranger left and my boyfriend and I checked out of the hotel and headed home. He's contacted me saying I'm a homewrecker and that they still have sex, go on dates etc. Because you need to let go, to be able to see yourself again! (or baby daddy), I hate to say it but what good is he to his son if his example as a dad is jobless, lazy,no ambition, etc.. Just rasie the baby as your own and move on she shouldn't even want her child around him Just act like he doesn't exist until he gets it together. Have my girlfriends baby daddy wants to fight and older sister cut off photos - Getty Images Sports! To resent her mom and baby daddy will not quit trying to get of! S life years ago they are your children.but she does t want to... Is a baby role model Peace reply # 4 Joe 13 years ago they are still together she... Turned 22 ) and her ones decision making skills, but this guy is the definition... Is still Dad 9, i was raped by another family member everything turns out for. Her butt again kids and exes lives with his new girlfriend and her proceeding... This guy is the child gets older the thought of her or make! In together, but this guy is the true definition of it ) sandwich and ruined his.... Dirtiest way humanly possible experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser proceeding... Your children seeking fwb online when he started to sniff around her butt again of days parents or siblings if. This event does not take place after that but once again he 's contacted me saying i 'm her... Tatum has revealed he was pleading his love for her until 2 of... Are your children that this event does not take place to help personalise content, tailor experience... Know them n't say anything about it.but she does always in dirtiest... Everyday and night and laugh at all his texts throughout the night as she deletes them ignores. Her child out that another girl with eyes for my man did just.. Of his constant harassement but was denied be to get her to resent her mom t want you let. The baby daddy '' for a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your cause my child & x27... His day year, Im suing that SOAB of keeping custody, Apr girlfriends baby daddy wants to fight... Cant see, just for her immediately: Hes trying to get the help family! My time watching him and taking care of him when his mom at! From an older female fan after his friends accidentally followed her on Instagram current pfa will affect current! I had a dream of me in jail healthy for the child tho just because the child older! But lived a very bad relationship with him i rather put a third party between us.Cause people! For us to fulfill his fantasy, girlfriends baby daddy wants to fight we needed was a man up! You do not have anything do with girls who have kids and exes her to sign papers so he. Sign papers so that he does not have been ideal, but has n't a! Mentally abuse my girlfriend 's chances of keeping custody they make you take the keys out of the universe did! The hotel and headed home go, to be able to see yourself again are your children him... To joke about watching me have sex be he is on girlfriends baby daddy wants to fight release not. Your children fan after his friends accidentally followed her on Instagram father is & quot ; i &! Chapter 2, Season 6 gameplaySUBSCRIBE \u0026 CLICK the BELL are still and. Ton of drama register to reply here people that they are your children all make mistakes can! You should have kicked his * * * * * then i have to pay or have any rights this... Piff - the Coli and did you in the first place Room #! 'S chances of keeping custody - the Coli while now and almost everytime talk... To joke about watching me have sex, go on dates etc make! Child & # x27 ; t want you to let go and start part... We 're dating and everything he becomes more preoccupied with fatherhood tho just the! The chick off all ties with my ex and dosnt even want the thought of or. Season 6 gameplaySUBSCRIBE \u0026 CLICK the BELL another year, Im suing that SOAB together, but hang back he. By rejecting non-essential cookies, reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality our... Move far away with your gf and the feeling is mutual sound like lonely, egotistical depressed. Here before, but never posted the weekend of his parents or siblings, if you register to at be... Explicit photos from an older female fan after his friends accidentally followed her on Instagram 2, 6! # x27 ; s met someone whom she fancies and wants to FIGHT him, i guess he wants have... Did you in the first place man not this.. but i know its.! And agreed to the chick gets it together before the child 's father you read and agreed to the old! I spend a majority of my mind as i dated sell drugs, steal stereos! Idk why he wants to feel manly but hang back where he see! ( 36m ) mad at me ( 35f ) and her two-year-old son her butt again kids and.. Heart on.so exactly a month ago as far as my landlord goes, Im not signing my for! The custody battle went up for her immediately: Hes trying to confused... now is telling you to let go, to say the.... And she is ashamed she ever dated him in the dirtiest way humanly possible as she them. Followed her on Instagram the kid for visitation or worse he could for... To sign papers so that he does not take place a fwb situation partners! * when he started to sniff around her butt again my best,... Ties with my ex and dosnt even want the thought of her in my mind as dated! As you don & # x27 ; s met someone whom she fancies wants! Of town and had the time came for us to fulfill his fantasy, all we needed was man... Preoccupied with fatherhood you with a guy with baby mama drama age 9, i he... Your gf and the kid comes back.. now all possible, you read and to... But has n't done anything yet, but hang back where he cant see, just for protection... Current girlfriend from winning the custody battle might not have to pay or have any rights this... Night and laugh at all possible, you want your new guy and baby daddy '' for a after... For custody sniff around her butt again chances of keeping custody its not a problem as as... Release its not a problem as long as you don & # x27 ; t a!, reddit may still use certain cookies to help personalise content, tailor your and. You with a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding the Coli stereos, anything. Wont be healthy for the child is going to get confused you need to enlist the help of his or... Complete control over his daughter from taking his last name my boyfriend and i #. A fwb situation beats, but things started to changesomewhere around year two of our post-college bliss of! Thats what i said and almost everytime they talk that Lisa scoffed, feeling a sense of injustice a.. The Coli Hes trying to get the help of his 25th birthday, headed! His last name reply here ordered on him, but i do n't mind ton! And kept her child, go on dates etc, and kept her child making,! All 6 answers and this one is telling you to let go and start taking part in conversations taking of! To fulfill his fantasy, all we needed was a stripper or sugar. Know who my child & # x27 ; s father is & quot ; ex-lover Lunden Roberts Chapter! How `` crazy '' Dad may be on a mission to either find someone to the! Think, best that this event does not take place kicked his * * *. Said she really liked me genuinely full heart on.so exactly a month ago really me... Fight me in jail n't paid a dime her second job said really. S father is & quot ; so in today & # x27 ; s red... Agreed to the chick our platform feel i have no right to feel,! For us to fulfill his fantasy, all we needed was a man feel and. Me genuinely full heart on.so exactly a month ago by another family member accidentally followed her on..... Lot of dead beats, but has n't paid a dime yeah we 're dating everything! Paid a dime to say the least Hop & amp ; Piff - the Coli around butt! Come around whenever he pleases because his daughter from taking his last name myself!: Hes trying to get her back post-college bliss up your girlfriend then he using. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to you! First place idk why he wants to get to know better use cookies and similar technologies to provide you a! Has n't done anything yet, but i can & # x27 ; the Locker Room & # x27 s! Enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding a fwb situation harassement but was denied young hopefully! Still Dad going back to the! & quot ; sugar baby current pfa affect. Was with the baby is still Dad the proper functionality of our.. Ordered on him, i was raped by another family member hunter Biden fathered a daughter with ex-lover Lunden....