the wife has told me in the past that her friend get crazy when she drinks a few drinks. I didnt. So hard because you wonder how much is made up in your head due to paranoia and if any of it has any truth in it? As children we learn our value from those that we depend on the most . Im not married but I have a baby with my live in partner. With just a few of your husbands basic details to get started, this tool can produce a wealth of information about his recent communications. I feel awful for you you sound sweet and loving. But my trust for him is gone, and so is the beautiful relationship I thought we had. He said she is just a friend dont you have friends. That to me is like hes hiding something. We had to be separated for a year because they emptied my propane tank that was filled up by an energy assistance program and I could not afford to put propane back in it. later we talked and he assured me that there was nothing between them. Its super clear that you know your husband is up to NO GOOD. I couldnt handle being told he didnt love me, had no desire for sex with me, its been almost a year and a half since we had sex. They say nothing happens, but the actions and lack of sex and emotions says it all! Why must he password protect his phone at home unless he has something to hide? He admitted he called her the next day. The guy I was with 2 1/2 years I finally found out he cheated on me. SO LADIES, PLEASE BE CAREFUL WITH THOSE TRAVELING CONSTRUCTION MEN. And I swear I never nag him, I never tell him what he can and cant do, Im guessing by now he probably is cheating on me. I loved going out with her, dancing and having fun. that many? Nothing against you more against them. my baby tried to come last night, he was supposed to get off at 6 but called me at 558 and said hell be working til 9 and hell meet me at the hospital when hes done working. (I was raised from a Christian home with parents who are still together to this day.). You are worthy of better!! He said he wanted to reconcile and I told him I didnt know if that was possible . I now know he is a narcissist as well. Everything he has tried that made some great steps in the beginning.changed jobs, changed cell phone numbers, now has a dumb phone, prayed as a family.all stopped over that last 4 months. Will Your Marriage Succeed? 3 months after my son was born i caught my husband in the shower watching porn which is not allowed under my roof and he agreed at the time but now hes constantly lying to me and feels like he is always going behind my back and when i see him in his work place it looks like he stares and flirts with everyone. He became extremely aggressive and angry with me when I started accusing him of being way too involved with her. Although lately I have this same gut feeling I had when I was suspecting him of cheating. Do you have any suspicious activity like phone calls, texts, emails, etc? Let me know how it goes.I hope youre misreading his behaviorbut your instincts will lead you to the truth. In fact, he did lie to me here recently about where he told me he ways going and where he actually went. (I asked him about her back then because he had her phone number on his cell phone contact list at the time). Heres an article to help you trust your instincts because I really believe thats the first and most important step to figuring out if your husband is lying about cheating. Its off limites to me! He never really woukd talk about her. Chris if you are 4 out of 5 of these things then perhaps you need to work on yourself and be more compassionate and understanding of the confusing mixed signals you are sending your wife. Woman, you need to pack his stuff up and send him to the left! Most of the questions seem to be coming from women who are in marriages or long term committed relationshipswhat do you think about handling cheating in new relationships? Hes not as interested in physical intimacy as he was before. I dont know if hes cheating or not, but am 100% sure that this isnt a good way to live! He still makes me feel like its my fault and that I dont need to know anything about it. Garbage in, garbage out I suppose. Leaning away from you is a sign of a cheating, lying husband because we lean away from things we want to avoid. Well i confronted him with this affair after finding a msg he sent her about a romantic place and how he wishes she was with him. Trying to rebuild trust after an affair seems impossible. In his audience, 30% of women think their husbands were lying about cheating, not everyone knew for sure. You can change yourself, your expectations, and your life.but you cant change him. Sometimes we have to walk through the darkest valleys before we discover the brightest mountaintops. He was actually married when he approached me although he didnt disclose this. I dont think Im being nieve but he just isnt the type of person to cheat on me. when i confronted him, he said it was because of his work, that they were making an investigation on the lady in question, that he was doing that so that he can catch the lady. Trust your belly honey. I have to show every sign of happiness towards him or he will try to make me feel bad. Im sorry you had to be, though I wish you and your husband were having no problems to write about. I realized later my husband asked me to sign off in his emotional affair. Dont let your husband take your power! He has refused sex with me on multiple occasions. I always thought of him as my best friend. Much prayers and good luck!! Now I am getting these emails. There is a lot more but I want to get to my question. HE WILL COLLAPSE into regret eventually.I cant live without youblah, blah, blah dont fall for that either. So, to do this successfully also shows how strong you are. I think in your mind, you knew he cheated. He did all the bull.. your crazy that woman is a whore. I really do. Maybe you could talk to your friends and find out where they got their information. I hate to tell you but hes cheating. Love yourself, dont cheat with guys who are already involved with other women. i spent 22 years with my high school sweetheart stayed even after finding out he cheated on me with my younger sister more than one and this had happened before we were married denial seems easy and blissful but deep down it eats and eats till one day it completely destroyes u. if his cheating this early on what is it going to like in 2 years, while ur pregnant, after the baby comes these are hard times on strong faithful men, cant imagine how it would be for a weak man. May you find guidance and support from other people who have traveled a similar road, who can help you make the right choices about your future. I thought about just living with it, since I am over 50 yrs old .. but its not worth it. Well being pissed i took those pictures printed out , mailed to her husband, her neighbors all on fire department who helped lie for him. He has always been a wonderful father. The first 5 months of our relationship he and I were very active with our physical love life he loved touching me and we would do it about 3-6 times out of a weekHe smokes pot everyday and stays up late. Nothing is lost it is all stored on ghost memory. He didnt return any of my calls. I let him know. My husband is very smart so he can hide sum of the signs like wen he kums home he stil wants to hav sex but he always accuses me of things, hell kum home and look at the bed and snoop around, hes always saying im liying about sumthing or that im cheating. They would adjust their schedules to be the same and always different from mine. He has made pictures by taking real life people and searching the internet and putting real people on nude bodies. This last chance, Im not sure whether it is work or not. In his car, buy hidden gps tracker in amazon so you will check his location everytime. It was a friend, who also disliked the girl. And the truth is, it doesnt matter what I think. Its very very hard. The biggest eye opener was when he used something I told him that Was very hard for me to tell him against me. Nothing happened but still, I count that as cheating. His decision to stay on to help rebuild the business, resulted in a change in their relationship. I cried. It was a women but he said it was his friend who is male. Part 1: Not Knowing What Happened. when i finish the coursce i went back to my town he come to my flat telling me lot of stories which i did not believe him couse was not having trust on him. While he was talking to her he was sitting next to me the whole time telling me he was talking to ppl about baby stuff. Multiple sexual encounters with the same woman while i was pregnant with our daughters. I have never seen this woman or boy before. It doesnt matter if he was cheating or not, what matters is that he was making you feel like he was cheating. Trust me, from experience I know and you will soon find your true Prince Charming who will treat you like the princess you are, change your number and get away from this lying husband who is cheating on you! You will have a wonderful family Unfortunately, your new husband has a terrible problem. Thank you for being here it took alot of courage to open up and share the way you did. he gets mad when is freind look or talk to me if i just next to him. Now, your husband has been cheating and you dont want to be in your marriage anymore, there is absolutely no need for you to attend a couples therapy session. Im a female who likes to watch porn for taking care of business when sex isnt an option. Hes a cheater! since we met he is cheating with various women includes his wife. He is my first and only and i was so happless. Pls, help me and I need ur advise. Because i dont want to catch anything n i love him but i dont want to keep living like this. I imagined him pleasuring himself while on the phone with her, uninterrupted in the comfort of his hotel room where he lived for that year. i have been married for four years now, my husband cheated on me once.. things change now we worked it out.. but i notice hes always interested in online porn than me..he loves me n i love him very much i told him what is doing hurts me but he wont stop its like hes addicted to it please help!!! This is part of a behavior pattern. But, heres the amazing thing, Chrissy. His answer is always the same youre the only woman I want, the only one I need. I honestly dont know how much more of this I can take and I really wish I could confront him about it all. he always said that and keeps saying it but it was just curiosity. Please help! I know has signs of cheating all over that. So the issue of cheating, has nothing to do with sex, so if you want your man to be honest with you, you first need to be honest with your self. And i have to say she is little shady. In my opinion hearing it from him myself is the only sense of relief you'll get. So Monday I got off early from work and checked the on line account and saw that there had been a text sent that morning. I understand your pain and where I dont have any answers for you, I do have my own story. Then I went to his office and conveniently his American Express bills were not in the files. That feels like someone cheated on you. You might wonder why anyone would want to stay married to someone like that. I knew it but didnt want to believe my marriage was over. Now that hes back I assumed everything would be better. Met woman on craigslist for sexting and video sex. There were favors involved (working her shifts). Ask casual, open-ended questions and prime your partner to tell you the truth when you're ready to get them to admit they are cheating. I cried on the phone to this woman all the while she was probably F-ing my husband. On weekends he spent all his time at the office, often 24 hours at a time. He said it meant nothing, he hadnt slept with her and it was just banter. And it is true, what goes around comes around. He told me he had known her for over thirty years and we have been married for 49 years. And no sooner than i forgave him and let up on the whole affair. I miss it so much. I pray for you, your husband, and your family. 12? Lied to me he was with his parents. I had checked his phone log and found a call to her house 15 minutes long and once again I confronted her and him with it and they claimed it was all business. In his testimony, the perpetrator states that as soon as he saw the victim he shuddered because, according to his claims, he had interfered in his marriage with his ex-wife. My prayer for you is that you do not let this man deceive you the way he has deceived other women. We were friends for nearly 10 years before ever going on a date. That is, if you and he have never (or rarely) fought about anything, then you dont know how to deal with something as big and scary as cheating. Why would he need a picture of this girl, if the already has million pictures of herlself everybody to see? if yes why cant you see until you finish the counselling process result and decide, i cant advice you for devorce but this depend to you, sit with your husband and solve the problem this is a very small somthing just becouse there is another woman involved, are they having kids together? Any of these women could turn up at your home or God forbid pass an STD on to you. 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